An 80th Birthday Gift to Remember
Just being lucky enough to have a mom or Grandma who is celebrating her 80th birthday is reason enough to do something special.
Chances are that in her previous 79 birthdays, your siblings and you along with other family members and friends have gifted her with everything
from jewelry to crock pots and fuzzy slippers to grandchildren pictures on every conceivable object.
A Special 80th Birthday Gift for Your Mother in Law
Out of all the people whom you know since you got married, it is probably your mother-in-law who was affected the most. You do not
have to ‘make anything up’ to her, but you can give her a gift of the years gone by. You did not steal her son, but she must have far fewer
chances to go out with him alone since he tied the knot. So how can you make the 80th birthday gift so special that she may
treasure it for ever?
Most women, most moms, and especially 80 year old ones would love to spend time with their children. The gift you can give is to
arrange for your mother in law and her son to go for a quiet but fancy dinner alone. Instead of taking the whole clan with strollers, booster
seats and bibs, just make reservations for mother and son. And the fact that you are arranging it will be a feather in your cap too. Your husband
might shirk at the idea but motivate him to do it for his mom’s 80th birthday gift. Who knows if she will be well enough or even
around next year?
The rest of the family should definitely call her up and wish her or even gather together for dessert at her home after dinner,
but let the dinner be just mother and son. They can catch up on old times when she might have brought him for an old fashioned sundae when he was
in school and that she would help him read the words off the menu as opposed to him reading the fine print for her today. Even if your husband
can not make good conversation, his mom can and soon they’ll be talking and enjoying themselves and making priceless memories.
The same idea can be replicated for an 80th birthday gift for a father and daughter or any other combination where a
parent and child get to spend some one-on-one time together without a lot of commotion. Parents would love to have such an opportunity but often
do not want to impose their wishes on their children’s busy schedules. So, if you are the one arranging it, not only will you be crafting a
perfect 80th birthday gift, you’ll be responsible for a memorable night.